Hope is life-affirming, a longing for the particular that gives energy to go on despite struggle and disappointment.
Hope teaches the value of persistence when there are scant results and we doubt the worth of our efforts. We learn to value the process of working towards a goal, not just reaching it.
This is not blind hope, it’s hopefulness underpinned by hard work.
Many great accomplishments have been made this way, from dismantling segregation to life-changing scientific discoveries.
But false hope is deadly. It chains us to an outcome we hope for but cannot achieve.
It locks us into an idea – of a person, job, institution – that has little bearing on reality. We are seduced by the idea of what could be, instead of what is.